To all my friends on my phone book...

12.29.08 (7:06 pm)   [edit]
Friendship is asking for directions, driving through traffic, and coming home for Eid Al Fitr. With gifts.

Friendship is a kind word when all you deserve are harsh ones for doing something terrible.

Friendship is taking you to and from the embassy and waiting in a car without air conditioning in the middle of summer while you try for your visa to Saudi.

Friendship is asking about your mother everytime you speak, as if its a habit.

Friendship is watching over a sister and brother when you're not there to protect them yourself.

Friendship is offering to beat up anybody who messes with you. No questions asked.

Friendship is helping clean up house when moving into a new place. And moving out.

Friendship is not being afraid to tell the darkest secrets. And knowing that they are safe.

Friendship is inviting you for every single Eid and treating you like you were a part of the family. Hugs, treats, unruly guests, tasty food and all.

Friendship is finding you after years of losing touch. And nothing has changed between you.

Friendship is taking your side even if it means having to stand up to a best friend.

Friendship is being angry and still wishing you well.

Friendship is worrying and showing that it can indeed be a priviledge. And what a priviledge it has been, it is, and always will be.

Friendship is trusting enough to tell about a stalker and asking help to take care of this problem.

Friendship is the wise-cracks, the sarcasm, the idiocy, and the retardation that comes with hanging out together.

Friendship is sharing secrets of where the best food in the world is made. And eating it together.

Friendship is not giving a crap about what other people say and trusting your own instincts about someone.

Friendship is leaving a kind comment on your blog to cheer you up, especially when that friendship is young and new, and nothing is owed.

Friendship is helping from a distance when being close will cause problems.

Friendship is the whats-mine-is-yours attitude where everything and anything can be shared. With exceptions. Like significant others. Tooth brushes. Underwear. Cheese sandwiches.

Friendship is an invitation for iftar every Ramadan, without fail, and leaving with stomaches full and hearts content.

Friendship is coming from another city to take a sick cat in for surgery at late hours of the night. And bringing other cat lovers along for the ride.

Friendship is sticking with you when you're stranded in the middle of nowhere without a ride.

Friendship is giving a place to stay when you don't have one of your own and could have been on the streets.

Friendship is going out of the way to make sure that you're well taken care of in your new job.

Friendship dropping by unannounced just to say Hi.

Friendship is bringing chocolate chip cookies to cheer you up when you feel like digging a hole and burying yourself.

...each of this could be attached to one of you. Can you tell me which?

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So winters finally here.

11.12.08 (6:06 pm)   [edit]

In with the oversized jackets, the ill-fitting sweaters, the itchy woollen pullovers and those butt-ugly winter hats that make you look like a model for Darwin's Theory. Out with the bermudas, the hot summer shirts, the breathey t-shirts and those super cool shades that makes you look less nerdy.

Bring out the hot chocolate, the fire-breathing soups and warm milk. Out goes the chocolate ice cream, the home made ice coffee and ever wobbling jello.

Cough and cold season is begnning right when fever season ends.

Don't get me wrong. I love when the climate is cool. I just am not a big fan of the cold. But I guess you can't have your cake and eat it (isn't it sweet when you can?).

I think I'm cold blooded. But thats only speculation.

I think cold climates are suited to polar bears, penguins, santa claus (he still kinda gives me the creeps) and the abonimable snowman. And people in love. But for them any season would do. Rain or shine, love will find.

So winters finally here. I think I'm going to make the most of it. Heres to a wonderfully warm/wet/woolly winter :)

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Becuase I protect that which matters most...

10.21.08 (11:26 pm)   [edit]

You have to hope that someday you'll find peace. Don't give up. Don't ever give up. No matter what anybody else tells you.

I'll take ya till ya all spun up
Fit or fat or doesn't matter what you got
I'll take ya till ya all spun up
And in love
And into the nightlife
I'll take ya till ya all spun up
Turn ya over baby till it's never enough
I'll take ya till ya all spun up
And in love
Into the nightlife
Love...into the nightlife

 - from the song Into the Nightlife by Cyndi Lauper

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Poverty - 2008

10.15.08 (2:01 pm)   [edit]

Its 2008 A.D. And we still haven't been able to eliminate poverty in the world. Like the war on terror, some say that the ongoing war on poverty will never end and cannot be won. I beg to differ.

Charity is encouraged in all major religions and ways of life of the world. And yet, it is binding, it was made an obligatory act of worship for the followers of Islam. You don't have to be a Muslim to help eliminate poverty. But as a Muslim, let me show you a system granted to us by God to make sure that the people of the world don't suffer forever.

That system is the Zakah (an obligatory form of charity) and the Sadaqah (an optional one). The Zakah is binding upon every able and well-to-do Muslim to give a portion of his or her wealth to the those in need of it as a means of purification of wealth and bringing about an ideal society where nobody would have to beg. Its not much to ask really, just 2.5% of the wealth that we may have accumulated to be paid every year. The Sadaqah does not have a fixed time nor a fixed amount. It could be as small as a smile to cheer up somebody who needs it and as large as donating millions in money.

I also would like to remind you that poverty in today's world is not just about the money. People are poor financially, physically, emotionally and this list goes on. Its not just money that makes the world go around. Don't be shy, help one person a day, do one good deed a day, and this world will be richer for it.

Today, the richest people are those who benefit from wars. The weapon's builders, steel mills, ship builders, oil companies, private security firms. Who do you think will benefit from peace? You. Me. The folks next door. The little girl in Palestine who had her house demolished for no fault of her. The boy in Iarq, barely a man, who watched his parents get shot by friendly fire. The mother in Africa who was so malnourished, she didn't have enough milk in her breasts to feed her new born infant. End the war on terror. Spend on the war on poverty.

 

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Blog Action Day

10.14.08 (10:13 pm)   [edit]

Hey bloggers!

I'm a little late, but better than never, eh? You have a few more hours to register your blog at Blog Action Day's official website. This years theme is poverty, and your views on it are most welcome. Blog Action Day - October 16th. Post your two cents worth. Spread the word. Make a difference.

  

 

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